Things I have learned from Mom.

I have learned a lot from my mom; I still do actually.  She is the adopted mom to many, and I am just proud she is mine.

The Thornton Women with very serious faces.

The Thornton Women with very serious faces.

Here are some things I have learned from her over the years.

  • Cook an onion to make the house smell welcoming, even if you do not have a real plan for dinner.
  • Listen to the Holy Spirit.
  • You can get happy in the same pants you got mad in.
  • Don’t take yourself too seriously.
  • Remember who you belong to.
  • Sometimes the best dinners start by cleaning out the fridge.
  • Water is never too cold to swim in–use it as an excuse to shriek.
  • A hand written note is a true gift.
  • A handmade valentine beats the store bought variety every time.
  • When hosting, don’t worry about perfection, just enjoy those you have invited.
  • Eat food that tastes good–life is too short to do otherwise.
  • It is okay to use something before you gift it (mainly jewelry).
  • You can never have too many friends–just make a little room in your heart.
  • Being flexible with your plans provides opportunities for fun that should not be missed.
  • Sleeping with the windows open makes for the best night’s sleep.
  • Sometimes the splurge is just necessary.
  • We are never finished learning about God.

I think even if Mom was not my mom, I would want her to be my friend.  I am so grateful for her.  Happy Mother’s Day, Mom.

Life’s goodness–every day for five years.

I really am a blog junky.  I love reading blogs.  Mainly about design and about food.  One of my favorites is Cocina Marie.  She is a childhood friend, though more of my sister’s than mine.  She is also a lawyer who has turned into a foodie, cookbook writer, wife and mom.  She may be practicing a little law too, but she doesn’t talk much about that on her blog.  A blog about practicing law would be pretty boring, given the attorney client privilege and all.  Recently, Marie highlighted an idea that I am taking on myself.

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It is a memory book for five years.  Each page has a day of the calendar year with space for all five years of memories.  This makes it easy to compare your memories on a given day from year to year.

At first, I thought I would wait until January.  Starting a memory book mid-year seems weird and disorganized.  But then I had a bad day and thought about the book, and how nice it would be to log goodness in my day.  And so I decided to start it, and write a line everyday of something good that happened–my highlight of the day.  In theory, this will make me focus on something good everyday.  And lately I have needed it.  Our office moved up north, which means a commute to and from work.  And the commute is to a rather depressing location in the middle of office building/cubicle land.  It sort of sucks the life right out of you.  Except it is just work–not life.  I need to focus on the good in life.  And this book is meant to help.

Here goes nothing.

Expect a report in 5 years.  Maybe sooner.

Frances and Bernard

Hi again.  It has been awhile.  No real excuse other than life.  I don’t even have the excuse of spending more time reading than writing.  In fact, I have done very little of either.  But I did just finish a book I thoroughly enjoyed.

13429680Frances and Bernard is a lovely story about the relationship of two writers, told in letters, based in the 1950s.  I am drawn to stories with strong women characters and this one is definitely that.  Beautifully told and quick to read, I would recommend it to anyone interested in smart but easy reading.  It is a love story–sort of–but turns out well in the end.

Some new favorites.

My friend, Colleen, and I went to lunch one day and saw a lady with a pretty purse.  We asked her about it and got enough information to find it online.  That was in the fall.  And I am now the proud owner of one myself thanks to my parents for my birthday.  I am loving it.  It fits everything and more.

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I got this in a free sample and think it will be a new go-to.  It has sunscreen, which is increasingly important to me and just a little color.

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Fabulous K recently did her favorite list, and I have embraced one of hers.  I put a few drops of this hair oil on the ends of my hair to protect it before I dry it.  It has made my hair look much healthier.

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I have been a lover of Lululemon since my friend, Kate, hooked me up before the New York Marathon.  Thanks to Kate, Lululemon “outfitted” Scott and me for the race.  I guess they thought that by outfitting super slow runners, the spectators could get a good, long look at us and admire our clothes.  Those clothes are some of my favorites but they are pretty expensive.  I have decided that I would rather buy less stuff, but get the “good” stuff.  And for running gear, that seems to be Lululemon.  I just bought this top with gift certificates and am really loving it.

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I am also loving this shirt from Nordstrom.

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The shirt is perfect for work with J Crew pencil skirts.

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And last but not least, I am loving my new wok.  It was not expensive, and is perfect for easy week night dinners.  Tonight I made stir fried cabbage and it worked great.

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